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I am a 38 year old GBM Gemini who is easy going, drama-free and laid back. I enjoy reading, working out, cooking, good wines and hanging out with my best friends. I am a spiritual (not religious) person and believe that life is too short to be sad. I am easy to get along with and expect my man to tell me what's on his mind. Since I am a Gemini I am a communicator and am always want to resolve issues that might arise. Life happens and we manifest what we consistently focus on. Don't you agree? I am looking for a lover who is my best friend and who will love me for me. This time around I am going to take things nice and easy. I could go on and on but I will not. If you want to know more and get a better sense of who I am and what I stand for. Well, get in contact with me. Lastly, the time of mate I am looking for must be over 30. I am so over young guys telling me how mature they are only to find that I am dealing with an emotional invalid.

Gemini

Athletic

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Brown

African American

Single

No

No

Smile

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Black

No pets

Yes

College Degree

Full-time

Legal

Paralegal

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Friendly, Outgoing

Reading, Music, Internet, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Cooking

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

My ideal would include picking up my date and hand him flowers, have a glass of wine before leaving, some insight small talk, leave to go on a dinner date on a roof top lit with 50 or so candles, good music, good food, good wine, and great conversation.

Since I have sky dived before, I would like to try parasailing.

Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Very Liberal

My ultimate goal in life is to have a successfully marketing career and business and to share my life with my best friend and lover all awhile contributing to the gay community and society in a positive way.

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

News, Situation Comedies, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Horror

Pop, Jazz, Dance, Soul

Auto-biography, Business, Fiction, Health

My idea of fun is actually entertaining a guy I am dating and friends with a dinner party - featuring good food, good wine, good company.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Money, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I am a Gemini and for us intelligence is such a turn on. I look for a guy who can hold his own in a conversation, who is sexy rather than HOT, who is not shy about introducing himself if he is interested and one who is not afraid to go after what he wants in relationships and in life.

Date, Intimate