English

H 5'9", W 195lb, 34" waist, 44" chest, reddish brown skin, light brown eyes, shaved head, moustache, goatee.

I'm not in to casual sex, simply because it doesn't satisfy my real need for intimacy and a connection to the person I'm with. I'd like to meet someone who I can be friends with, so we have a real base on which to build something more.

I'm very down to earth, love to laugh, and spend time with family and friends. I'm an avid reader, with a considerable library of books. I enjoy cooking, long walks with that someone special at sun down and even in the rain. I try not to take life to seriously. With me what you see is what you get, no pretense or airs. I'm comfortable in my own skin and happy with the man I've come to be. I work hard, but the job is never more important than person or people in my life. I can be brutally honest, but I've learned to temper that honesty with consideration for others feelings. I am fiercely protective of those I care about. I tend to give my heart freely, which is probably why it's been mishandled so many times.

Cancer

Athletic

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Brown

African American

Single

No

Not Sure

Smile

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Secret Piercings

Bald

No pets

No

Some College

Student

Student

Currently completing my Psych Degree

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Reserved, Boisterous, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

A nice slow, romantic dinner, with drinks, lots of conversation and laughter, casual physical contact. Followed by a stroll through Old Towne Eureka or along the Boardwalk, shoulder to shoulder, and end with a nice kiss at his door before saying goodnight.

Hmmm, snorkling, flying a helicopter and/or plane.

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Liberal

Be a psychologist, help others, work for gay rights, and find a way to improve the world in some meaningful way.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller

Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Dance, Soul, Gospel

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Mystery, Science Fiction

Being with someone special, or a group of friends just hanging out! Going out to a romantic dinner, a walk on the beach, a hike in the redwoods, reading a good book, cooking, listening to and singing along with good music. Basically, fun is where you find it, and I look for fun and humor no matter where I am, some little thing that will put a smile on my face. I can have fun just people watching. So...???

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Someone I can have an intelligent conversation with, and a good sense of humor! Nice lips and teeth. A sexy butt and nice legs. Someone with goals and the drive to achieive them. Caring, trust worthy, honest, passionate, committed, a believer in monogamy.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed