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Seeking Friends With Benefits
Age 75 From Forest Hills, New York - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English, French, Spanish, Other
I Would Describe Myself As  
I am 59 (it says that on a piece of paper somewhere). My attitude about myself and life is not that of a typical 58 year old. All of my clients, when we converse on the phone, think I am in my late 20's or early 30"s due to my enthusiasm about whatever I do and my passion and intensity that I live my life by.

I am over the top romantic and very passionate about ALL that I do out of the bedroom, as well as in.

I do not like to have sex. I love to make love! I know you know the difference. Chemistry is what it is all about. That emotional attachment that makes life worth living, to find that special someone that puts a smile on your face by the mere mention of his name.

I was married MANY years ago and divorced a long time when I decided to stop living a lie. I have 3 adult children who know that I am gay and don't seem to have a problem with it. They have met BF's of the past and got along very well with them and accepted them, as long as that was what made me happy.

I am very active in sports as much as my hectic schedule will allow. I am VERY PASSIONATE about bowling (started a few years ago due to BF at the time being an avid bowler) I bowl in several leagues and do tournaments all over the country. I practice yoga on a regular basis and also have a great hybrid cycle I try to do as much as I can (do Chelsea Piers to the GW bridge and back) and take incredible photos as I go, as I am a crazy photographer.

I own and operate several international travel companies and thus I travel a great deal.

I am looking for friends God has been very good to me and like everyone, I have gone through some tough times, but the blessings that I have now I would love to share with others.

I do volunteer counseling work with gay teenagers and married men who have come out or are in the process. Both of these are very difficult places to be in.

I am 5'10"/195 ( a work in progress to get to 175 or so - wherever I feel comfortable). It is not about the weight, as much as feeling good and tightening up what God leaves me :-).

I have a full head of reddish-brown hair and emerald green eyes (guess that's because I am 1/2 Irish). My top is totally smooth, lower body light hair (guess that's cause I am 1/4 Saami from Finland).

I am looking for friends who have a great personality, first and foremost, combined with intelligence, killer smile and sexy eyes. The rest is open and up for discussion, judging each book not by it's cover but by its contents. I have no type and have dated guys from every race, color, religion, body type and persuasion.

I am not into the gay scene, although I do love to dance, so going to a club with a partner or with a friend would be great. Don't do bars, not looking for one night stands, hook ups or being a "piece of meat" on display.

I do not smoke, do illegal drugs, no longer drink (due to medication), HIV-, disease free. Drink socially and responsibly is no problem
Any other questions please feel free to ask.

I live by WYSIWYG (what you see is what you get). I try to be transparent. Honesty, truthfulness, self-respect and respect for others, sensitivity, caring, spirituality and positive attitude about one's self and life should be who you are and what you are about.

Friendship has no geographoc barriers. That's why God made planes, phones and computers.:-)
Sign  
Sagittarius

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is  
5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Eyes Are  
Green
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Committed Relationships
I Have Kids  
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is  
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Dog
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Self-employed
My Speciality Is  
Hospitality / Travel
My Job Title Is  
CEO
I Make This Much In A Year  
$100,000USD To $150,000USD
I Live  
With Pet(s)
At Home  
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Brain
My Social Behavior Is  
Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Arts & Crafts, Music, Movies, Games, Dancing, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Hot air balloning followed by awesome breakfast with champagne followed by a tour of the vineyards, afternoon by the pook and romantic dinner outside under the stars.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
sky diving
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is  
Be all that I cna be and help others achieve their maximum potential
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
News, Documentaries, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Drama, Thriller, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Classical, Jazz, New age
When I Read, I Always Read  
Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Instructional, Philosophy, Political, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Traveling the world with your best friends or that special someone, sharing great times, laughing your asses off, good wine, great food and fabulous memories to last a lifetime.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
Honesty, intelligence, integrity, passion for life, great sense of humor, romantic, sensitive, caring, spiritual, fun to be with
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate
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