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OK; here we go… (HELP; LOL!) Be patient with me…I’m trying to be as honest and informative as allows here! Let’s be upfront; I have very little experience with internet dating...so perhaps I am wasting my time on this site; But I'll give it a go...for a short time anyway...just to see what happens! I finished a LTR with a Filipino guy (10 yrs younger than me) 7 months ago; whilst I still hold a dream to meet a LT partner...that's not what I'm expecting to find here. If it happens...well, that's a big bonus, but not an expectation! I guess I am simply looking to make new contacts with GAM's who are into GWM for dates/friendship/more...who knows. I'm not the type who has had a great deal of experience with 1 night stands...and whilst it isn't necessarily what I'm looking for, I have also learnt 'never to say never'. (I admit I have a high sex drive…so …well…you get what I mean!!!) I have only developed an attraction to Asian men in the last 4 years and am keen to learn more about why I have this attraction physically and otherwise. So at this point, I'm pretty much open to anything...within reason. Anything from an email conversation to a dinner date (+???) would be of interest to me. I’m told I look younger than my actual age and look mid-late 30’s. I hope that’s true! I have an unusual career some would describe as exciting; it primarily involves travel...not on airlines...I am still based in Sydney most of the time. I hate having to try to write down who/what sort of person I am here, as these sorts of forums allow people to write anything – whether it is true or not. So, I asked some of my friends how I should describe myself...they told me I am (amongst other things!) ... funny; intelligent; well-travelled; generous; optimistic; empathetic; interested in others; organised; talkative (sometimes too much!); passionate (about lots of things); mature (yet sometimes act younger than my age - not sure if that is a positive or not!! LOL!); sometimes opinionated; a good listener; strong when needed; loyal; committed; trustworthy; reliable; honest; spontaneous; and a good friend. That all sounds nice I know...so let me add my own personal observations here (just to put it into a more balanced perspective)... I can't stand liars; cheaters; users; bad manners; people who 'play games'; any form of dishonesty; people who have difficulty talking about/connecting with their 'feelings'; people who are only into the 'Gay Scene'/Clubs etc; people who do Drugs; people who have bad personal hygiene; people who are racist; people who are unnecessarily judgemental of others; people who don't or aren't prepared to listen to others opinions (even if they disagree with them); and people who aren't open to the possibility of walking a mile in someone else's shoes. OK...that is MORE than enough from me (perhaps too much?). If you've read this far; I figure I’m still ahead! Sorry it's long...but, hey, that's who I am! If you want to send me a message, please do. I will tell you anything else you want to know based on what you might ask when we connect. As always, in these situations, it all depends on chemistry. I admit to being a bit nervous as I hate the fact that this sort of thing invites people to make judgements based on a merely a photo or some words I have written, but, hey, I also understand that's the ‘name of the game’ here. SO....you've read all that...I'm ready for new friends...in whatever capacity (!) I'll shut up now and wait to hear back from you! Thanks for reading all my stuff! Good luck on your journey! :-) Hugs!

Taurus

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Never Married

No

No

Smile

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Blonde

No pets

No

Some University

Self-employed

Entertainment / Media

Public Relations/Entertainment

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Socially

Yes - Often

Outcast

Comedic, Friendly, Observant, Shy

Cooking, Dining, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Theater, Travel, Tv

Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Tv

Coffee/Dinner/Talking and learning about each other.

Looking to see what would happen if I put a profile like this on the right sort of gay dating site....guess I'm about to find out!

Friendly, Obscure, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

On Holidays

Middle Of The Road

To win Lotto and retire to a life of being fabulous!

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Sadistic, Slapstick, Raunchy

News, Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Reality Shows, Soaps, Re-runs

Comedy, Romance, Animation

Ambient, Classical, Folk, Jazz, Pop, Rock

Auto-biography, Biography, Humor, Instructional, Music, Philosophy, Satire

A good bottle of wine, take out, friends and lots of conversation loaded with laughter!

Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

A GAM (25-40) who I can have friendships/ dates (+?)/or just a nice time with.

Internet Buddy, Date, Intimate