Spanish

I am an naturally easy-going, cozy fellow, insightful and tender-hearted.I am lonely and isolated and crave a physical and emotional connection with a good-looking Asian male, (19-29).I am very young at heart, do not look or act my chronological age. I am a restless Sagittarius who loves to travel, read, has a passion for photography

Sagittarius

Slim

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

No

Hair

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Brown

Bird, Fish

No

University Degree

Retired

Teacher / Education

Psychololgist/social worker/counselor

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Brain

Observant, Friendly, Outgoing

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Internet, Photography, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Computers

Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing

The contemplation of a first date is a relationship killer! If I want to meet someone for the first time in want to do a "real" activity with them. Dinner out is expensive, noisy and distracting, going to a movie is passive and wasteful in terms of interpersonal time. Therefore, the secret, I believe, is to mutually decide on some low-key activity that appeals to both parties and just "go with the flow." There is plenty of time to be as you are, casual, engaging, active, learning, and mostly feeling the vibes of the interaction. I like these mini adventures that cost little, both parties arrive and leave separately, they are time-limited and they allow for an experience that generates a lot of valuable reflection on the quality of the interaction for both individuals and whether you enjoyed their company, essentially. Anyway, that is my style.

I have been around the block a few times, so I am not being an old "fuddy-duddy" when I say nothing comes to mind. But in the context of a new relationship with someone, this always seems to permit doing something different fromt the modus operandi that most of us find ourselves stuck in. That is the beauty of mixing young and mature together. We bring new vitality, new options to the forefront. So, although I cannot think of something novel now as I write, I am sure to discover something that I what to try when the chemistry is right between new people and they open doors of inspiration.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

I Don't Like Politics

Most of my goals in life have been fulfilled except my life as a gay man has not been fulfilled to the degree that I desire. Oddly, I have never enjoyed the gay scene, the bars, the smoke, the superficiality of it all. I came out very late so I was very mature. And, by that time I was a working professional and I had to be discreet which let to being in the closet for much of my adult life. My goal is to find love with a young man with whom the generational space between us is an asset. He brings a whole new way of behaving and thinking, I contribute a lifetime of experience and wisdom and every front. I desire to be his champion and he will teach me about being open and free and not hiding my myself and my sexual orientation.

Clever, Friendly

News, Documentaries, Dramas

Romance, Drama, Thriller

Latin, New age, Ambient

Business, Fiction, Health, History, Instructional, Nature, Philosophy

My camera and I are inseparable! There is nothing more fun for me than to take advantage of or create a photographic encounter. It is most fun with people, especially at an etnic dance performance where there are smiles, happiness, and complete unselfconsciousness. Another fun but more placid activity is to be out in nature at sunrise or sunset. I usually love to be alone at these times. I must know a companion well before I ask him to go with me. It is an acquired "fun" taste that is certainly not for everyone!
Therefore, fun is involvement with the environment. Fun is taking my images back to my digital darkroom and creating my own interpretation of them with digital software and sharing them with others.
Fun is going to the gym and getting sweaty and feeling my body respond to stress.
Fun is doing something for others that is a surprise.
Fun is bonding with a pet. I love dogs, bunnies, birds, etc.
Fun is meeting someone new and having fantasies about the friendship.

Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness

I am looking for a Young Asian, (19-26) who has internal beauty and external good looks.He must be sweet and respectful. I want him to be relatively naive sexually but also be able to be mature enough to define himself beyond his sexual orientation by his ambitions, dreams and need for connection, nurturance and emotional support. He should have black hair and dark eyes and natural body hair, the more the better! I look for someone who enjoys chatty, long, creative foreplay but also responds to much touching, cuddling and nesting. Love should be the basis for sexual intimacy. We should revel in the compatibility that our relationship offers. I am looking for a person who can abandon his preconception of the stereotype that my chronological age suggests because a truely rewarding surprise and treasure awaits the young man who "knocks" on my cyberdoor!!

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate