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I live in Phoenix, Arizona, USA (less than a year), and have been really surprised by how hard it's been making friends here, in the gay community especially. I'm originally from the midwest (the Chicago area), and have traveled and/or lived all over this great country - including over 2 years in Los Angeles, where I was an actor and did stand-up comedy - and have never, EVER had trouble making friends or finding people to hang out with, male or female or gay or straight. But as time goes on, I guess I do see a problem with many gay men who think you have an "agenda" in wanting their friendship; as if you maybe REALLY just want to get into their pants, or maybe want to date them.

I have always been facinated - from the heart, not the crotch - with the beauty of Asian men. I write for the adult industry, currently, and have published over 60 short stories of erotica alone ... and notice, even in my writing, that stories featuring any guy other than Asian are sexually INTENSE - but when an Asian man is featured, the tale turns far more romantic, as well. If that doesn't say how I feel, I guess little else would. I've only been in love twice in my life, and the second guy was from Thailand - maybe that had something to do with it?

I don't think so, though - I remember my first crush, back in sixth grade, was a white guy who looked somewhat Asian. Either way, it's just how I feel ...

But I'm a very different gay male overall - and in this way as well. NO WAY am I a "rice queen" for one - plus, I am also a bottom, so I've known my share of white guys who like Asian men because they seek to dominate ... whereas I seek a masculine Asian top, myself. Monogamy is key - a MUST, as well.

But for now, what I seek are FRIENDS around the world - people who'd like to get to know someone, share their culture and their part of the country/world with a former actor/stand-up comic who is intelligent, conversational, funny, sincere, creative, and maybe up for something more in the futre ... but perfectly FINE with just making a new friend. I plan to travel within the next few years, and it'd just be fun to have friends able to show me their world when I do ... and, of course, such friends would always be welcomed in my own home.

After all, you can never have too many friends.

Scorpio

Big And Beautiful

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Green

Caucasian

Never Married

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Blonde

Cat, Dog

Yes

Some College

Self-employed

Art / Music / Literature

freelance writer

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - One Or Two

Quiet One

Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Dancing, Photography, Theater, Travel

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

A quiet dinner and conversation - maybe a movie on DVD, one we've both seen so we can just have it on in the background as we sit on the couch and cuddle and get to know one another.

... to learn to swim/scuba dive. I love the ocean, but almost drowned when I was about 11 or 12, and there is still a residual fear of water in me I'd like to overcome.

Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

Once

I Don't Like Politics

To see as much of the world as I can before I leave it ... and to never stop learning.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

News, Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

Comedy, Drama, Animation, Horror, Thriller

Electronic, Pop, Classical, Latin, New age, Dance

News, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Reference, Satire, I'm An Author

Spending time with someone I care about, just lauging and talking and hanging out - just the intimacy of sharing their company

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Someone smart, funny, ambitious, friendly, honest, open, and willing to open themselves up to someone they care about, once they get to know him. #1 - MONOGAMY, if in a relationship - but also loyalty, even in friendship.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Committed