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A wise man once said "Every man is three men. There is the man his Friends
think his is; there is the man He thinks he is, and the man he actually is.

Here is my best shot.

When I was boy growing up in the NJ suburbs I would stare at the white tiled walls
of the Lincoln tunnel as we would venture to Manhattan looking for the exact "NJ/NY"
border, filled with excitement at the wonders NYC had to offer. I went to college in
upstate NY and grad school in NYC, and for better or worse have never lived anywhere
else. I kind of knew that's how it would be. However, I am wise enough to know it is
a matter of personal
preference. I have traveled extensively, but have much more to do. Never been to
Africa, Russia or Scandinavia. Asia is a particular favorite of mine, and I love
spicy Asian food:Vietnamese, Thai, Indian, Chinese, you name it.

My many good friends would describe me as loyal, compassionate,
self-deprecating, polite, but also given to frivolity and an appreciation for the
outrageous. My hobbies are going to the movies, especially historical movies (David
Lean), and I collect old silver which comes in handy for the occasional dinner
party. I like nice wines, especially when they are a great find. I work out
regularly. I am a little shy and require alone time now and then. I also enjoy the
humor of Chris Rock, Lewis Black and David Sedaris.


The type of guy I am looking for is kind, honest, smart, able to laugh at his own
foibles, tolerate mine, and keep to his part of this bargain: "I'll take care of
your heart, if you take care of mine".

Ultimately, isn't that what it is all about?

Cancer

Average

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Hair

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Brown

No pets

No

University Degree

Full-time

Finance / Trading

Director

More Than $150,000USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - One Or Two

Brain

Friendly, Outgoing

Exercising, Movies, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Dining, Travel, Cooking, Cars

Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Going To A Museum

To meet on a foggy back alley in Venice, exchange glances and go back to the hotel. Do what boys do, cuddle, go out on the balcony. Do what boys do.
Have some cookies and milk, and sleep til Noon.

To speak Italian, go to Chang Mai, pet a penguin, go up in a hot air balloon

Perfect, Raunchy

Christian

Never

Middle Of The Road

Contentment, which I would define as "getting it".
Hard to do.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

News, Documentaries, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary

Classical, Jazz, New age, Ambient, Dance

News, Auto-biography, Business, History, Humor

You will find out.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Spontaneity, Wit

I am really into slender intelligent funny (Asian)guys
who can laugh at their own foibles and tolerate mine. Kind and clever, who will know how to handle me and keep me in my place--I tend to be a type A personality.Someone who cares about their healthy body, but likes to have a hot fudge sundae on the rare occasion. A good education turns me on a lot, but street smarts and wisdom more.

I want a guy that can enjoy a hike in the country,
a tea dance at FIRE Island, and also just cuddling with me on a cold Sunday afternoon with the Times.

Casual ok too. I am looking but not rushing.

Date, Committed